Negativity energy is contiguous. Sadly, negative people are drawn to negative energy and you wonder why your life is filled with negative things, as well as negative thoughts. There is good in every situation, try looking for the good in all things.
Nobody wants negative energy to permeate their lives. When you realize that the future is NOT cast in stone but that you have more control over your circumstances and your thoughts you will understand that life is too short to look for ways why this or that won’t work but learn to enough the moments to have fun & enough life as they come. Positive things could bring great things into your life if you let it.